The Cravings Code
Self-Assessment
Answer each statement honestly — there are no right or wrong answers, only truthful ones. Add up each section total, circle your highest score, then flip over to discover your primary Craving Driver.
RHN
How to score: For each statement, circle the number that best reflects how often it applies to you. Then add up your total for each section.
Your highest section total reveals your primary Craving Driver. Flip over to read what it means.
Highest in one section? That’s your primary driver. Two sections close together? Read both on the back — having more than one driver is completely normal.
↩ Flip over to read your resultsYour body has been sending signals.
Here’s what they mean.
Find your highest section below to read your result. If two scores were close, read both.
Your body isn’t getting enough food, protein, or calories to meet its actual needs — so it pushes hard for more, especially quick-energy foods. This isn’t a lack of discipline. It’s biology doing exactly what it was designed to do.
Many women in their 40s have spent years undereating in the name of “being good.” The cravings that feel out of control are often just ignored hunger finally demanding to be heard.
Start here: Add a protein-rich breakfast within one hour of wakingWhen your body is running low on sleep, nutrients, or resilience after chronic stress, it looks for the fastest available energy and reward. That usually means sugar, salt, or fat — not because you want them, but because your system is depleted.
Chronic fatigue, brain fog, and relentless food thoughts are signs of depletion at the root — not a motivation problem.
Start here: Prioritize magnesium-rich foods and consistent sleepThe moment a food becomes off-limits, it becomes louder. Restriction — whether physical or mental — creates a scarcity mindset that makes “forbidden” foods magnetic. The more rules you carry, the louder the cravings get.
If you think about food more when you’re “being good,” this driver is almost certainly at play.
Start here: Remove one food rule this week and notice what shiftsNot every craving is about hunger or emotion. Some are simply about context. Your brain builds associations between time, place, activity, and food — and then fires automatically. The craving feels urgent and real, but it was triggered by a cue, not genuine need.
Recognizing the cue is the first step to interrupting the loop — and it’s surprisingly liberating once you see it.
Start here: Identify your top two cue-craving patterns this weekFood is one of the fastest, most reliable ways to shift how we feel — and there is nothing shameful in that. For many women, especially under chronic stress, food has quietly become the primary tool for managing difficult emotions: boredom, loneliness, anxiety, frustration, or simply the need to feel something good after a hard day.
This isn’t a character flaw. It’s a coping strategy that worked — until it stopped working. And it can be gently, compassionately replaced once it’s understood.
Start here: Name the emotion before you eat — just notice, no judgmentNow that you know your driver — imagine actually resolving it. That’s exactly what we do inside The Cravings Reset, my private 1:1 coaching program for women who are ready to stop cycling and finally get to the root.
A discovery call is free, private, and completely no-pressure. Let’s talk about what’s keeping you stuck.
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